Recognising When a Story Has Been Told Before
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Family stories are often polished through repeated telling long before an interviewer ever formally arrives to record them properly for the archive. Recognising the signs of a well-rehearsed account, smooth pacing, consistent phrasing, a practised rhythm, helps an interviewer understand what they are actually working with. A polished story is not necessarily less valuable simply because it has been told many times before this particular conversation.
But it tends to have had its rougher edges worn away over repeated tellings at family gatherings and other occasions over the years. Sometimes spontaneous detail gets lost along the way, traded for a more satisfying and reliable shape that works well socially. Gently probing beneath the polished version can sometimes recover what all that smoothing quietly left out over the years.
Asking a speaker to slow down at a particular point, rather than letting the familiar version run its full course uninterrupted, often surfaces new detail. The well-worn telling had simply stopped including that detail somewhere along the way, without anyone quite noticing it had disappeared.